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Love is not equal to Sex, Sex is not equal to Love

for god's sake! stop equating sex to love and love to sex! it's rediculous! the two ARE NOT, in any sense, intertwined. jeez!

listen, if sex and love were connected then you'd fuck everyone you love and you'd love everyone you've fucked. obviously this isn't the case. you love your mom and dad, you love your brothers and sisters, friends, buddies, etc. but do you fuck them?

NOOOOOO!

likewise, the drunk paris-hilton look-alike you hooked up with at the bar last weekend, you love her now that you fucked her?

NooOoOoOOoooo!

sex DOES NOT define the socio-psychological factors of love. in ANY way. please, please, PLEASE stop trying to equate the two. you're driving yourselves crazy.

those tingly feelings you get after a lay are nothing more than dopamine and endorphins being released into your brain. after three months of it i garauntee it'll fade and you'll be left with the asshole you THOUGHT was the love of your life because you had a giant, earth-shattering orgasm. silly fuckin' kids. jeeezuz.

sex is merely reproductive. that's it. that's all it is for. to make babies and continue the species. love has nothing to do with this. otherwise every couple who had children would magically stay together. obviously there are many of us out there from divorced families who can see that this certainly isn't the case. love does not always lead to procreation as can be observed in couples who've spent a long time together and don't elect to have children.

we really must work towards breaking these archaic modes of western thinking. they're dumb, and they make us look like whiney lil wishy-washy bitches. life doesn't always have to be a fucking soap opera or episode of dawson's fucking creek or beverly shithole 90210. get over it. a lot of the time we make things more complicated than they really have to be by holding to stupid ideals and not being realistic.

did you know the french have like over 50 different words for "love"? each one defining the specific type?

puppy-love
friendly love
familial love
brotherly love
sisterly love
the i-want-to-fuck-your-brains-out-on-a-friday-night-then-take-off love
the i-like-to-cuddle-then-maybe-suck-your-dick love
the oh-my-god-you're-a-fucking-genius love
the i-respect-you-as-a-human-being love
divine love
pure love
innocent love
dirty love
nothing-but-sex love
etc.
etc.
etc.

let's all try to start thinking in these terms at least.

people think WAY too much. get a goddamn hobby. fuck. i feel like i'm taking crazy pills.

more later...
~B-)

9:53 a.m. - 2005-07-20

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